Especialy in Africa,precisely Nigeria we belive whenever someone is going througqh a hard time,people will tell you your enemy is behind your problem;am not saying there is no enemy though,but its not like that in most cases.Atimes the reason why majority don't find solution to their problem is because,they focus their attention on else this multiplying it and making them gigantic.Check yourself first before you start holding other people responsible of your problem. Imagin someone who prefer using the blunt side of a knife when cutting meat,you can imagine how difficult it will be and that is the reason why you must check yourself.